What about True Friends?

I don’t know anymore guys. It’s a clearly subjective matter. It depends on what you look for in a friend (personality traits, humor, being available to spend time with you, common interests e.t.c.) True friend are supposed to be there for you when you thrive cheer for you and when you hit rock bottom pick you up. The chance to meet this kind of people is extremely rare nowadays.Even if we meet one mostly we push them away only because we think that they are to kind or to depended on us and then we lose the end. Some time passes and we realize that this was the only thing we needed to feel safe to be happy.


Well I personally never had a best friend. As most of the people would say “That’s great you are free to be as close as you want to be with everybody” it is not that simple  having many friends is awesome a once in a lifetime experience. But what happens when you are alone at home relaxing and you start thinking about why don’t you have one true friend, one loyal genuine person that will hold you tight till the end whenever, wherever you will reach it together.

I have always thought that having many friends is great and amazing but those thoughts never revealed my true feelings about it. How much more I would be pleased if only I had a small group of crystal clear true friends.



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Life quoting

As I am a really wise person (I wish) I get to live with some principles, basically some quotes that explain for me situations that I cannot really keep up with. But except those easy breezy lemon squeezy already existing quotes, sometimes I prefer to create my own path to wisdom by motivating myself through writing DIY quotes. Some of my favorites are:

There is no life without having a little bit of fun.

Problems are for solving not blowing.

YouTube is a tool use it well. (sensible)

Knowledge is the best way to improve.

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XOXO ♥♥♥♥


Human Rights

Human Rights is quite a general term. Rights are everywhere and refer to everyone and everything. Especially when we are talking about humans, there are many categories of rights having to do with different things each time. Human rights is the sum of all different rights and “privileges” that we have.Where am I getting with this? I promise I have a preety valid point. Your rights shouldn’t be violated by anybody except yourself. These rights come with requirements that you should follow faithfully if you want others to take you seriously and not withdraw them. Especially when we are talking about sexuality or religion these rights are essencial for equality and approvement by the society. By having and protecting these rights you should be accepted by society if you are not your rights are being stumbled upon.





Karma will be harsh on you

Yes, that is a typical phrase used once in a bit. Basically I use it everyday but this text is not about me. Doing things that harm others or yourself will always come back to you life is a boomerang people you hurt will always be lurking around the corner no matter what happens. As fast as you decide to accept this you will become a better person. I know this doesn’t make sense but it does. For one more time I seem nuts but I have a point I promise. What goes around comes around. Being nice to the people around you will make you a better person you can add to it an inspiring personality that wants to make change in the community. This can be the bit of inspiration that you need so that you can become the perfect person you want to. By living with this idea in your head you can limit your self in this way you will make yourself become a better person.

Yes, karma is going to revenge you with all it’s force by you you have to be strong enough to face it. 

Be a nice person, be the good one in a relationship and you will always be rewarded… (the rest is up to you)


XOXO ♥♥♥


What is Girl Power?

Serious talking this time. No there is no such thing here. When I am saying girl power I do not mean these ridiculous T-Shirts from H&M having on them logos saying GIRL POWER like they know what it really means. By girl power I refer to women who are bosses in the world-wide gender game. Women who know success and having the power ruling others. Girl Power by definition is thought to be the ability of girls to stand up for themself. 

Are we really standing up for our self or are we letting others think that we are powerful and that nobody can mess with us? Physically we are, but mentally we are not only lacking power but also the ability to develop the power we need to be equal.

Men and women have a different way of thinking and performing tasks but does this fact really tears us apart? No it’s the emotional and mental stability difference that categorizes us into women and men. If a girl is not taught from a young age to stand up for her beliefs she will become a dull inexpressive adult. The same thing applies to emotions. A female experiences all kinds of emotions throughout her life. If she was taught not to take hers or others emotions seriously she would become exactly equal with men. I am not saying that emotions are a disadvantage the opposite they are an advantage for some specific tasks.

Emotions are the ones that make us special so we should embrace them  after all we are always going to be the bosses of this world either we are CEOs of companies or waitresses.

After all you should love yourself and be whatever you want no matter how the society criticizes that. 

Be your own man who is cultivated with emotions.



Me, myself and I

Once again song quoting, the best method to make an honest relationship with yourself and now I seem like a mental person once again. I’m always repeating myself. Still standing in my own virtual world. Yes, i know I’m living my own reality. Either you believe it or not I do because I truly hate from the depths of my dark soul this corrupted reality that everybody else ”lives”. And now I’m using impressive vocabulary yass I’m capable of that give it up for my dictionary called mind. That’s all you need to know about me if after all this reading you are not convinced to join my website then I will haunt your dreams forever.Not really I’m just kidding. But if you decide to join you are more than welcome.

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Gossip Girl (still trying to be funny no use it’s not working Melia)

Trying to song-quote again



Hello guys,

My name is Melia and I’m here for any type of advise that you need. Currently I’m going through the best time of my life so far and all that because of the things that I realized throughout these past months. I created this blog for one and only reason, for me to be able to help others with their problems.